My aunt passed away last Monday (4th). Now as we all know when people pass it's a very sad occasion for all involved. My aunt had been ill for a while, and was hospitalized 10 days prior before we went to visit her in hospital last Monday afternoon.
We stayed for a couple of hours, and had a "good" time catching up and putting the world to rights. After we left she told my uncle she wanted to have a sleep as she was tired and less than an hour after us leaving she had a heart attack and died.
We hadn't been home long, it took us over 90 minutes to get home, my dad called and said she had died. We were in shock. Absolute, total shock. I was lost for words, as less than two hours before we were having a good talk and laugh. So that's why it hit me hard. I am a very practical person in dealing with things and in cases of emergency I am a take charge person; but this threw me for six.
We also had a pig of a week with a couple other things last week, that included having a shouting match with one of the neighbours.........which I did not start and really upset me, as I wondered what hit me!!! As a side note this particular neighbour has fallen out with all the neighbours, everyone hates him.
And ended up with our daughter having to put her cat of 17 years put to sleep.
So a deep breath now will be taken and we will start this week fresh and with positive vibes.........